Life is as you SEE it.

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The way you see your life shapes your life.

How you define life determines your destiny. Your perspective will influence how you invest your time, spend your money, use your talents, and value your relationships.

Being a youth leader back in my college years and occasionally, these not so previous years of sharing God’s word to other people, I always do get the chance to ask this question: “How do you see your life?” Asking that, you will discover that there are as many different answers to that question as there are people. I’ve been told life is a circus, a minefield, a roller coaster, a puzzle, a symphony, a journey, and a dance. People have said, “Life is a carousel: Sometimes you’re up, sometimes you’re down, and sometimes you just go round and round” or “life is a ten-speed bicycle with gears we never use” or, as I’ve also written in one of my posts here, “life is a game of cards: You have to play the hand you’re dealt.”

If I asked how you pictured life, what image would come to your mind? That image, if you will, is your life metaphor. It’s the view of life that you hold, consciously or unconsciously, in your mind. It’s your description of how life works and what you expect from it. People often express their life metaphor through clothes, jewelry, cars, hairstyles, bumper stickers, even tattoos.

Our unspoken life metaphor influences our life more than we realize. It determines our expectations, our values, our relationships, our goals, and our priorities. For instance, if you think that life is a party, your primary value in life will be having fun. If you see life as a race, you will value speed and will probably be in a hurry much of the time. If you view life as a marathon, you will value endurance. If you see life as a battle or a game, winning will be very important to you.

What is your view of life? If you got the time to reply, I’d be happy to read it in the comments below 🙂

As for me, life, basically and fundamentally, is as I see it, and I’ve dedicated large portions of this blog expressing my views about life (and living). Doors are open if you’d like a tour 😉

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47 thoughts on “Life is as you SEE it.

  1. I don´t believe in pre-determined purposes in life: I think we are born only conditioned by our genes and social sorroudings but not with any special purpose, so for me life itself doesn´t have any meaning unless it´s linked with personal development, so the meaning of life is to improve yourself and learn by questioning everything you´re told.
    As for a metaphor image, I would consider lif to be a board where an artist paints, feeling each brushstroke and enjoying the journey.

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  2. Finding the positives in all situations is how I like to view life. Sometimes it’s hard to find that beauty, but it’s there! I wrote about that the other week as a matter of fact! Such a good thing to keep top of mind. I like your perspective.

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  3. I see life as a blank canvass. I feel that we are the creators of our own realities, and that the blank canvass can be used to create all sorts of beautiful landscapes, or happy portraits, or it can be used to create wastelands and morbidly depressed people. Its really up to us. I’m not artistic, but I love the metaphor, and feel that writing is a great way for me to create, and hopefully make more of a shift in the real world towards what I aim for in my writing. Great post and thanks for sharing Andrei!

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    1. Thank you for sharing your life’s metaphor Sherif. I do agree that we (primarily) are the creators of our own realities.
      Use your words to express your opinions into the world. Wish you and your blog all the best! I’m grateful for the visit 🙂

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  4. I pictured a woody cliff-side with a dog by my side. I probably need to get away from the city. I have even been thinking about it for some time now. Thanks for making me realize life is actually very simple if we could see it.

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    1. Wow. That’s something.
      Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I really appreciate it ☺
      I agree with your purpose, life is truly meant to be lived in love. It’s truly refreshing and encouraging to hear it being expressed by other people. 💖👍
      All the best!

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    1. Thank you. I visited your blog and I find it really motivating. We do share similar opinions on some issues you’ve written about.
      You got a lovely blog going. Keep it up.
      All the best!

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    1. Thanks for such a lovely compliment Taj. I’m equally glad to have found your blog here 🙂
      Writing is truly a great avenue for us to make a difference in this world through our ideas.
      Let us never let the words fall short. So long as we have the heart to share, let us write some more. Our heart, put into our works, is what makes them come alive.
      All the best Taj! ♡
      See you around 🙂

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  5. This is a great post again. Sometimes, I too forget that the way I see things is just from my own perspective and may not be the same for others. To answer your question, life for me is loving. We sacrifice because of love, we become happy or sad because of love…we feel pain and anger and also great joy and fulfillment in love. When we love, we share a part of us. I think that’s what gives meaning to our existence. 😊

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    1. I love reading you speak of love Nina.
      I know it’s your desire to spread love to other people; your blog is evident of that.
      I’m convicted on how you manifest your faith in your life by loving. More so by your maturity about how you view life in general. The Bible says there are 3 noble virtues a person can acquire – faith, hope and love. But the greatest among the 3 is love. A life devoted to love and loving others is indeed a satisfying and fulfilling life 👍❤️😉

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  6. I took some time to think about your thoughtful post, Andrei! All I could picture was a beautiful place amidst the greenery and simplicity of nature’s bounty. For me life is simple with love and happiness and a healthy environment being the focal point of living. Being the reason for another person’s happiness will be the icing on the cake!

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    1. Amazing heart you’ve got Pranitha! As they say, the ‘best things’ there is are clothe with simplicity.
      In all honesty, your’s is one of the amazing definitions of life I’ve read, “For me life is simple with love and happiness and a healthy environment being the focal point of living. Being the reason for another person’s happiness will be the icing on the cake!” – The beauty of it lies in its downright simplicity and its intent to reach outward in service to others. Life is truly NOT intended to be lived only for one’s self but to be shared with others.
      Love your perspective, love your heart even more.
      Happy and thankful to have met here another great soul in your being, Pranitha.

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    1. Thank you for taking the time to read and for the wonderful comment Ali.
      You’re right, oftentimes we’re buried neck-deep about how society looks at things in life and the branding it imposes on such things, and in effect, we tend to forget the very basic truth about life itself and how it is so simple if you’ll just take the time to stop complicating it and consider things in a deeper way.
      Your life is defined by you and how you see it. Our respective perspective is what truly counts.
      Thank you for the encouragement, Ali. I’ll do my best to share my views and keep on writing.
      You too. Never grow tired of sharing your words to the world!

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  7. Beautiful post, sir. Life is indeed as you see it. Talking about my view about life…
    I am someone who believes, Life is a game of uncertainties. Anything can happen any time and any where, and you’d be prepared enough to face the bitter truth. Well, if I wanna compare life with other things, I can almost find million ways to do that. (Whoops! Just a hyperbole! ) But ya, life is indeed the way you see it.

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    1. Thank you for taking the time to express your view about life Nikesh. And I definitely agree with you that life is indeed a game of uncertainties. As they say “life is like a box of chocolates, you just don’t know what you’d gonna get”. However, that uncertainty is what gives life beauty and excitement, would you agree? 😉

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    1. Hi Karen!
      Thanks for taking the time to read. I’m happy and encouraged to hear that you’ve learned something from my post. It’s a fulfilling feeling to be appreciated by a fellow blogger ☺
      Thank you!

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    1. Nice to hear your thoughts about life Radhika. Savoring life every little step of the way huh? 😉 That’s nice!
      Thank you for taking the time to share your view. Thankful as always for your support 😊

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